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“REWUMBLING” – October 31, 2010


It’s been three weeks since we concluded the fall mission trip and as I’ve retold countless people about the latest experience and what we did I’ve coined a new word…..”Rewumbling”.

Jose's siblings with LarryWhen we went out to Jose’s house one day to deliver a bed for him, we were at a point where we finished our work. Karen knows how much I enjoy playing with the siblings (10+ kids ages 4-12) and she knows how much they enjoy playing with me so she turned to the kids and told them, “OK, you can go play with the ‘big boy’ now”. As the kids and I went outside to wrestle, run or do something, I thought for a minute and then grabbed a long piece of rope we had to tie the bed onto the top of the car and wrapped it into a loop, doubled it over and tied it up….Presto! We had a “ball” made out of nylon rope!

I then instructed the kids to take sides and within 5 minutes, we were playing a version of football with the kids on my team running routes and trying to catch my pass – if it was “intercepted” we changed sides. It was such a neat (read “rewarding”) experience to realize this group of children and I could have a wonderful time without a playstation, fancy equipment or even a real ball.

Pastor Mariela A few days later, we were visiting with Pastor Mariela (Vida Abundante Church) about eventually buying a piece of property for the church. Keep in mind that her family typically lives wherever the church is. The first piece of property was outside of town….an empty lot of weeds, and when we asked “where would your family live?” she stated simply, “We’ll put up some stakes and a canvas….make a tent.”

We asked what else she had found and she showed us a property that included a one room cement structure with a dirt floor. As we tried to tell her we felt neither of these options was very good as the living quarters seemed inadequate she stopped us and said “You don’t understand….our family is here to serve our God…we don’t need much to survive.” I suddenly lost all desire to upgrade my cell phone or to buy a new laptop. Here was someone who was very clear about what was truly important to them and what they did (or didn’t need) to fulfill their purpose. You can certainly see where “rewarding“ and “humbling” both describe my experience. Hence, the word “Rewumbling”.

Larry Pedersen – 2010 Mission Co-host

Life’s Journey . . . Reflections of our recent Cozumel mission experience–October 30, 2010

Ilene Kendrick WOW, what a great experience the October 2010 mission trip was. For the first time, Byron and I decided to take an extended trip and stay in Cozumel for 3 weeks, one which would be the actual mission trip. Little did we know that there would be so much to do and we needed those extra days to complete the projects.

Byron Kendrick scraping paintYes, Byron was the one who started the paint scraping at NUAFA, and even though we have teased him about this, we should be thanking him for finding this BEFORE we painted all of those walls. We began this project on the Saturday before the mission trip was to begin the following Friday. The day care was closed on Monday through Wednesday of the following week so the workers could attend “fire safety” training so we were able to complete the painting before the children returned on Thursday. If we had waited until the mission trip, this project would not have been completed before we left. God is good and has a plan…we had the easy part, just being faithful to His call.

A friend shared a quote with me a few days ago and this is exactly how I felt after this mission trip:

“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘LORD’ what a ride!” (Altered George Carlin quote)

Life is what we make it. I feel so blessed that God has given me the opportunity to serve the people of Cozumel and have a small part in making someone’s life a little better than it was yesterday. Don’t pass up an opportunity to be blessed, join us in February!

Ilene Kendrick; Sherman, Texas

Mission Trip Co-Host

Meet Our October Mission Volunteer Team–October 20, 2010


WOW . . . the Friends of Cozumel Fall Mission Trip officially scheduled for October 1-8 actually began September 25 with a 5-day marathon pre-trip painting project and ended with final project modifications on October 11 . . . 16 days in total! While we weren’t able to post blogs during our project work, we’ll share reflections and photos in the coming weeks.

We worked hard! We enjoyed fellowship
of sharing experiences within our group of mission volunteers and with local people. We learned new skills and developed a deeper cultural understanding. Together we accomplished a great deal to benefit children, families, and community organizations.

THANKS to our Mission Volunteers . . . a diverse team of 12 travelers from the US and island residents.

April and Alfredo Working at Bazar April Koss DiPasquale (CZM) is a local host volunteer who claims she doesn’t “do” projects . . . but cooking IS her talent so she keeps us well fed with wonderful lunches, hosts special suppers, provides transportation, serves as cashier for Gran Bazars, donates to families in need, is a shopper extraordinaire for special supplies and does a great deal of behind the scenes support for mission projects…..Alfredo Rosas (CZM) is a long-time personal friend of “Amigos de Cozumel” volunteers. He participated part-time (weekends/ evenings) around his full-time accounting work. Alfredo’s bilingual capabilities are a HUGE asset in translating. In addition to being an outstanding Gran Bazar cashier, Alfredo painted, sanded and discovered the fun of using power tools!

Byron Kendrick at WorkByron Kendrick (TX) took a three week sabattical from his RV repair business to come early to prepare for the Mission Trip. We won’t let Byron forget he discovered the old paint peeled off the NUAFA daycare walls which launched a 5-day scraping, sanding and painting marathon BEFORE the Mission Trip began! Byron has four Cozumel mission trips under his tool belt and enjoys working on shop projects.

Gail Applying WallpaperGail Lewis (TX) felt a calling to participate in this mission work so on a leap of faith she creatively found the necessary resources and invested a great deal of time beforehand to ensure payroll responsibilities at work were covered. Gail did sewing and craft projects, shared her passion for sewing with local women taking sewing classes, donated fabric, wallpapered to decorate a daycare and packaged food supplies. GRACIAS, Gail and the Sadler Baptist Church for their generous donation to support a local church and youth education.

Ilene and RayIlene Kendrick (TX) rarely relaxes as captured in this photo during a Mission Trip outing to the east side of the island. She’s constantly “on the go”. Co-hosting four mission trips to Cozumel, coordinating annual cruises for SAIL (women’s bible study cruise group), initiating the Bible Blessings ministry and continually seeking donations demonstrates Ilene’s energy and commitment to a mission partnership with the community. If home is where the heart is . . . Ilene is definitely “at home” in Cozumel…..Ray Ham (CZM) is a retiree living on island who is very involved in the lives of two special girls, Nuria and Sami, who are like adopted daughters to him and Sandy. The girls often help with Friends of Cozumel volunteer activities. Ray is a wealth of information about the island, knows where to go to find things or whom to contact in addition to being handy with woodworking and other projects. Thanks to Ray and Sandy for their tireless efforts “schlepping” volunteers, supplies and mission projects from place to place.

Jaydee Painting NUAFAJaydee Williams Ferguson (CZM) is an island resident who has been searching for meaningful, FUN volunteer work. She jumped right in to painting the daycare and hung shelves. Jaydee’s love of crafts led her to help with a mission trip project at the CAM school for children with disabilities. As a result, she volunteered to coordinate an ongoing crafts effort for the school and is working with family members in the US recruiting donations. THANKS to Jaydee for buying and donating sports equipment for CAM’s 100+ disabled students.

Karen Help PaintKaren Pedersen (CZM) coordinates the Friends of Cozumel informal network of volunteers and donors, identifies needs with local organizations, plans mission/service projects and ensures donations reach the intended audience. Karen connects people to benefit the community. She focuses on learning opportunities for youth and women, encouraging volunteerism and developing leadership skills.

Larry and Edwin at workLarry Pedersen (IA/CZM) loves woodworking as a hobby so looks forward to planning projects and spending time in the shop during mission trips. Larry works “virtually” whenever visiting the island to support his computer services business in the US. He is teased relentlessly about the number of daily trips he makes on his bike to the hardware store and often laments “If we had a table saw we could . . .” Larry actively recruits future mission trip volunteers in hopes that justifies acquiring more tools, including a table saw…..Edwin Gerardo Fernandez (CZM) survived his first mission experience working incredibly hard by scraping, painting, sanding and varnishing for days before and during the Mission Trip. Edwin learned to use power tools, packaged food supplies, used his bilingual capabilities to translate and was willing to try anything. He especially enjoyed the fellowship with “experienced” volunteers (code for the rest of us are a generation older)! Edwin is a volunteer teacher for Catholic youth education and is initiating a trash pick-up program.

Sandy HamSandy Ham (CZM) is one of the most positive persons you’ll ever meet! She and Ray have participated in three mission project work weeks as well as volunteering for ongoing Friends of Cozumel activities. THANKS to Sandy for coordinating the huge NUAFA daycare painting project, wielding a drill to hang shelves, assisting with the Mexican cooking class and helping coordinate efforts to avoid duplicating resources that benefit the community.

Treva Repairing Sewing MachinesTreva Mahan (TX) visits the island annually with SAIL, a women’s bible study cruise group that has developed a mission partnership with several organizations. Her love of sewing led her to make/donate five new curtains for the daycare, organize storage for NUAFA sewing class supplies, service sewing machines, sew a custom seat cushion for a disabled child and lead craft projects at the CAM school. Special THANKS for the wonderful donations Treva brought . . . school backpacks, beauty salon class supplies including wigs, fabric, craft supplies.

Support Children’s Education By Helping Us – August 22, 2010


THANKS to our dedicated team of Super Shoppers, we’re well on our way to reaching the goal of providing school supplies for 100+ children! Larry is maintaining a spreadsheet of donations received to date as well as supplies we’ve been informed have been purchased in Iowa, Nebraska and Texas. The three highest priority needs from this week’s specials are: 12-pack colored pencils–need 70+, scientific calculators–need 25, and highlighters–need 70.

Best weekly deals through Sat., August 28:
Please keep receipts for donated supplies – Required for Customs

OFFICE DEPOT

Sharp Scientific Calculators- Model EL-501WB-BL (Limit 2) – $1.00
Compasses (Limit 3) – 25 cents
3-Pack Erasers (Limit 3) – 25 cents
Pencil Cases (Limit 3) – 1 cent
2-Pocket Folders (Limit 10) – 1 cent
Rulers (Limit 3) – 1 cent

WALGREENS–With coupon in weekly print ad available in stores
12-Pack Colored Pencils – Penway Brand (Limit 3) – 39 cents

STAPLES
5-Pack Bic Highlighters (Limit 2) – 50 cents

TOYS-R-US
12-Pack Crayola Colored Pencils – Buy 1 Get 2 Free
10-Pack Crayola Markers – Buy 1 Get 2 Free

KMART–Need variety of sizes for boys & girls ages 4-12
Fruit of the Loom Boys’ 6-Pack Underwear & Girls’ 9+1-Pack Underwear – $3.88
Fruit of the Loom Boys’ & Girls’ 6-Pair Socks – $4.88

Thanks to everyone for your continued support!

Larry and Karen

Support Children’s Education by Helping Us – August 18, 2010


Hello Super Shoppers,

We’re accumulating a good deal of the school supplies needed thanks to everyone’s generousity! We are raising our goal from supporting 75 children to hopefully helping 100+ kids in addition to providing supplies for two Christian Youth Bible School Programs and a school supply donation to the CAM school for youth with disabilities.

This may be the last week of advertised deals as some local schools began this week or will begin next Monday. The newspaper and online ads contained very few cheap weekly “deals” so we personally visited each of the 7 different stores to check out unadvertised stock and prices . . . thus the delay in sending out the list.

Best weekly deals through Sat., August 21
Please keep receipts for donated supplies – Required for Customs

OFFICE DEPOT
Vinyl Storage Pouch (Limit 3 per household) – 5 cents
Translucent Calculators – $1.00

TARGET
Calculators – $1.00
Girls’ or Boys’ Hanes 6 + 1-pk Socks (need various sizes) – $3.79
Girls’ Hanes 9 + 1-pk Underwear – $5.00

WALMART
Vinyl Supply Pouch Ross brand – 25 cents
12-Count Crayola or CrazArt Colored Pencils – 75 cents
Back to School Calculators – $1.00
Girls’ or Boys’ Hanes Socks 12 pr for price of 10 – $5.87
Women’s Hanes Socks 8 pr for price of 6 – $4.87
Women’s Hanes Cotton Briefs Sizes 5-6, 8 pr for price of 6 – $5.27
Girls’ Hanes Underwear Sizes 6-16, 10 pr for price of 9 – $4.87
Boys’ Hanes Boxer Briefs Sizes S-XL, 4 for price of 3 – $4.87
Men’s Hanes Socks Sizes 6-12, 8 pr for price of 6 – $4.87

Support Children’s Education by Helping Us – Sunday, August 8, 2010

 NUAFA children received their new backpacks and school supplies

Children were given backpacks and school supplies at NUAFA

 Older children received new backpacks with supplies on Aug 7th

Older students received their new backpacks on August 7th

Help us shop/donate the weekly specials on school supplies! Invite your friends, neighbors, family or work colleagues to grab their spare change and make a stop or two during the week . . . the more we can add to our army of shoppers, the more children we can help continue their education. The supplies we are buying now will be for next school year, August 2011!

Friends of Cozumel volunteers from Iowa, Nebraska, Texas; Mission Trip participants, and the SAIL cruise group transport items to the island. Questions? Email karen@friendsofcozumel.com

Last night we finished distributing backpacks filled with school supplies to 75 children from families with very limited resources. The children and parents are soooooo appreciative! Click here to read more about the School Supplies Project

Best Weekly “Deals” Sunday, August 8 – Saturday, August 14
Most are while supplies last, no rainchecks
Please keep receipts for donated supplies–required for Customs

OFFICE MAX–Buy the limit of all three items for only 96 cents!
2-Pocket Folders – 1 cent each (limit of 6)
24-Count Crayons – 5 cent each (limit of 3)
8-Pack Washable Markers (fine or broad line) – 25 cents each (limit of 3)

OFFICE DEPOT
Tug 2-Hole Pencil Sharpener – 5 cents (limit of 3 per household)
5″ Schoolworks Point Tip Scissors – 25 cents (limit of 3 per household)
6-Pack Sharpie Accent Pocket Highlighters – 75 cents
Free backpack with $10 purchase if you have other items

WALGREENS
Package of 2 Elmer’s Glue Sticks – 19 cents
Package of 2 White Correction Fluid – 99 cents

High Trails Backpacks – $3.99 (Note: We need backpacks to give each child. These are very basic, inexpensive ones at a GREAT price. Last year we waited until AFTER school started in the US and made the rounds of stores and were able to buy quantities of these same backpacks on sale for $1.25 each)

WALMART
24-Pack Crayola Crayons – 25 cents
Package of 2 Elmer’s Glue Sticks – 25 cents

KMART
24-Pack Crayons – 25 cents
Package of 3 Papermate White Erasers – 50 cents
12-Count Color Pencils – 50 cents

DOLLAR TREE – Not a weekly special
Basic Calculators – $1.00
Scientific Calculators – $1.00

Plan a fall or winter “Vacation with a Purpose” – August 6, 2010


Come visit Cozumel and enjoy the island’s natural beauty . . .

Have fun and lend a helping hand by joining these mission efforts & projects . . .
 

Participate in a Mission Trip–Volunteer for 1 or all days:
October 1-8, 2010 (4, 5 & 7 day options)
February 23 – March 2, 2011 (Option to stay for Cozumel’s Carnaval)
View Photos of our Last Mission Trip
Options for Participating, Volunteer Roles Needed & Projects
Future Mission Trips – Details for Oct. 2010 and Feb.-Mar. 2011


 

SAIL 2010 Visits Vida Abudante

SAIL 2011–Women’s Bible Study Cruise
Cozumel Mission Visit + Jamaica + Grand Cayman
January 16-23, 2011 on Carnaval Conquest
Hurry . . . only a couple of spaces open for group of 20

SAIL General Information
SAIL 2011 Details
SAIL’s Cozumel Mission Efforts
SAIL Previous Years

Shoes & School Supplies Support Education for Children-Aug. 4, 2010

The island heat and humidity is stifling, but we’re having a very “cool” experience . . . giving shoes and school supplies to children of families with very limited resources.

 Children anxiously wait their turn to be fitted with tennis shoes donated by the SAIL group

Children anxiously wait their turn to be fitted with tennis shoes donated by the SAIL group

 Children in Jose's family receiving their backpacks

GRACIAS to all of the donors for providing backpacks for these children



 

Friends of Cozumel sponsor an annual School Supplies project to provide basic resources children need to continue their education. Attending public schools is “free”. However, families must furnish the learning supplies (very expensive to buy locally) plus purchase required uniforms and shoes. Families who can’t afford these expenses for all their school age children, may have to decide which children to send to school or what basic needs to go without (i.e. food, rent/utilities, health related expenses) to pay for school supplies.

Larry and I made a home visit Saturday evening to distribute two backpacks with school supplies to a single mother “in need”. Her sole source of support for herself and two teenage children is doing alterations she learned in a “taller” sewing skills workshop and other odd jobs. She was holding back tears as she asked us to share her appreciation with ALL those who have provided donations and she declared, “It’s like Christmas in the summer!”

Watch for other photos and updates about the School Supplies Project over the next few days.–Karen

Early – Mid July Happenings on the Island – July 9, 2010


Sunday, July 4th was declared a “dry” day (no alchohol sales) due to local and state elections. Elections results:

Governor of Quintana Roo: Roberto Borge
President (Mayor) of Cozumel: Aurelio Joaquin
District VIII Representative (Diputado): Freddy Marrufo

Friday, July 9 officially begins school vacation for Cozumel students and teachers. The school year runs longer than in the US due to the frequency and length of holidays and celebrations throughout the school year. Classes for the 2010-11 school year will begin in mid-August.

 Nuria with Sandy at CAM School

Nuria-left with Sandy at CAM school

KUDOS . . . Special congratulations to Nuria, age 16, local student whose excellent grades and outstanding test scores resulted in her being excused from the last month of school! She was the envy of her classmates. Nuria has a special family relationship like an adopted daughter with Ray and Sandy Ham, local Friends of Cozumel volunteers. Nuria joined us for a few February 2010 Mission Trip activities . . . setting-up the “Gran Bazar” and visiting the CAM school for children with disabilities.

Bible School programs open to all children in the community begin next week at NUAFA, followed by week-long sessions sponsored in various locations by churches and mission efforts. –Karen

The Impact of Education (or lack of) – July 6, 2010

 Miriam hopes to keep her younger children in school

Miriam hopes to keep her younger children in school

I recently made a home visit to the Gutierrez family to talk with Miriam, a single mother whose husband died a couple of years ago. Miriam and her children are survivors, having experienced both a great deal of sadness and life changes. Miriam’s oldest son, Ariel—a child with severe disabilities sponsored by Carrie’s Heart, passed away in August 2009.

After her husband’s death and Ariel’s passing, Miriam became increasingly uncomfortable and didn’t feel welcome living with her in-laws. Yet she was dependent on them for shelter, childcare, to share food and other aspects of their life. Miriam took a giant leap of faith they could make it on their own and moved her six children to a modest one-room rental. Her second oldest son, Erick, lost interest in school after his father died. Erick quit school before he was 12, the “obligatory” school attendance age that is not enforced. At the ripe “old” age of 13, Erick is now working to support himself and his grandmother with whom he is living.

Miriam is young, bright, very responsible and a caring mother but she confided she doesn’t have much formal education. As a result, she can’t read, write or even spell her children’s names. I discovered this when I asked if she needed assistance with the children’s school supplies next month and requested her help in compiling information about their ages, school, grade levels, etc. She’s learned to “cope” and brought me her file with their birth certificates so together we created the needed information. Her family will be part of the ~75 children receiving backpacks and basic needs sponsored by the Friends of Cozumel School Supplies project.

We often assume illiteracy is primarily an issue for seniors or those with special challenges. However, there are many people like Miriam, often women of all ages, who didn’t have the opportunity to learn the basics of reading and math. The impact on their lives is profound. For example, during my visit with Miriam, all the children arrived home from school. They LOVE school! After exchanging greetings, they excitedly got out their notebooks to show me what they had learned that day. A family friend arrived about the same time. He comes daily to help the children with their homework. Imagine not being able to read to your child, notices from school or their report cards!

Miriam wants more for her younger children ages 5 – 11. Her dream is to keep them actively involved in school at least through age 12 and hopefully beyond so they get an education. Although Miriam’s lack of formal education has limited her ability to read and write, her LIFE education and perseverance is a positive role model for her children. Although they still experience sad times, in the past six months their family has become self-sufficient and Miriam proudly shared with me their life is happier and less stressful. –Karen

Learning to sew leads to jobs & saves money – June 25, 2010

NUAFA Sewing Class

Part of the 2010 Summer Beginning Sewing Class sponsored by NUAFA

A small group of eight women gather three times a week for a couple of hours with their instructor to learn basic sewing skills. This week they completed 2/3 of a three month sewing class. They have already learned how to make their own patterns and completed a blouse, skirt and dress.

When I visited the class to take the photo above, they were ALL very excited about what they are learning. Only one of the women had any previous sewing experience. Most plan to use their skills to sew for their family and a couple of them are hoping to get jobs as seamstresses making school uniforms and basic alterations.

Sewing classes are one of the “Los Talleres” (means workshops in Spanish), an educational program sponsored by NUAFA (Heart of Family Support). This summer class is smaller than the normal class size of 10-20 participants but these women have been anxiously looking forward to learning and promised to attend consistently so they could graduate before school begins in August. Other women’s job training classes will begin in the fall if NUAFA is able to obtain donor sponsorship.

Los Talleres has a positive influence on the participants, their families and the community. What is the impact?

  1. Women learn new hands-on skills
  2. These skills enable them to support their families by preparing them for jobs, to begin home based businesses and/or use the skills to save their family money.
  3. It encourages self-sufficiency and contributes to breaking the cycle of poverty.
  4. Increases self confidence
  5. Provides a positive support network to meet other women who are improving their lives.
  6. Provides information about community resources to help their families. Participants are expected to attend other educational programs in addition to their skills classes.

Special THANKS to the donors of this class . . .

Diane Schroeder, Donor

Diane Schroeder, Iowa donor, visited NUAFA Jan. 2010

Candi & Eloisa with Indira Moreno of SAIL

Candi & Eloisa Buenfil, NUAFA Co-Founders with Indira Moreno, SAIL


Diane met with NUAFA staff, Elizabeth Chan (Instructor), and several previous sewing class participants when she visited this winter. Diane’s personal interest in sewing led her to provide a very generous cash donation that is paying for the instructor’s stipend.

The 2010 SAIL Group provided in-kind donations of fabric and other sewing supplies for use by sewing class participants when they visited Cozumel in January. Previous SAIL donations included new sewing machines purchased in the fall of 2008.

Donor sponsorship (both financial and in-kind resources) is critical to providing learning opportunities. Friends of Cozumel is seeking sponsorship for classes to begin this fall. Click here to see the Wish List of needs for Los Talleres–Karen

NUAFA Celebrates Preschool Graduation – June 18, 2010

Children at Graduation

Listening to Eloisa share their accomplishments and antics

Eloisa Buenfil - President and founder of NUAFA speaks to the graduates and their families

Eloisa Buenfil - President and Founder of NUAFA addresses the graduates and their families during the ceremony



Over 50 family members gathered at NUAFA Friday evening to celebrate an important rite of passage . . . four year olds “graduating” from preschool daycare. Although all these families have very limited resources, they pooled their collective resources and recruited sponsors to provide a memorable event.

It was an honor for me the mothers of the children and NUAFA Co-Founders requested I be the “madrina” (godmother) for this year’s graduation. Friends of Cozumel has been supporting NUAFA for 3 and 1/2 years since this age group of children began daycare. It was great fun seeing each child beam with pride as they were individually recognized and received their diploma.

Dr. Lourdes, a respected doctor, was the speaker for an program for parents just prior to the graduation ceremony. Eloisa Buenfil, President & Founder of NUAFA, is the smart volunteer leader of this non-profit organization who looks for every opportunity to educate parents.

It is always amazing to me how things come together the moment an event begins. For example, the mothers and staff planned to make white togas for the graduating children to wear but a last minute change resulted in the children having actual graduation gowns complete with mortarboards and tassels (some clearly were drapery tie-backs “borrowed” from homes of employers or friends). Local folks are very resourceful! Quantities of donated food appeared. Like many local celebrations, refreshments consisted of pasta, pop (all types of soda), and “pastel” (Spanish for cake).

NUAFA 2010 Graduating Class

NUAFA 2010 Graduating Class

Eloisa Buenfil addresses the graduation group

A graduate is very proud of her certificate

NUAFA Daycare is growing – June 17, 2010

Slowly but surely the word in the community is spreading about NUAFA’s high quality educational daycare and as a result NUAFA is growing!
The number of daycare children ages 1-4 has increased to 25

Nearly all are from families with very limited resources and qualify to receive “becas”, food scholarships from SEDESOL (a federal government oversight agency) for two nutritious meals + snacks daily

The number of employees has increased to 6 (4 young women daycare assistants + 2 Co-Founders: Eloisa Buenfil, President, and Candi Buenfil, recently changed her role to serving as full-time cook)

Anticipating “Graduation”

Tomorrow, June 18th will be a very special celebration for 4 years olds who are “graduating” from daycare to begin kindergarten in August. Celebrations are taken VERY seriously here in Mexico! A visitor might think preparations were underway for something the magnitude of a high school or college graduation. Mothers of the children and NUAFA staff are preparing food, white togas for the children to wear, special “headgear”, graduation certificates and have issued invitations to other family members.
As the “madrina” (honored sponsor or “Godmother”) for this event I was asked to provide the cake which I am glad to donate as it is one of the more expensive items these families cannot afford to purchase. It has required three personal trips to the grocery store bakery just to get someone willing to take the order and then a prolonged conversation about the merits of ordering chocolate vs. tres leches (three milks), THE traditional celebratory cake. We’re starting a pool for how fast this 3 kilo cake will melt once we leave the AC in the grocery store to deliver it to NUAFA in the 90+ degree temp and 100% humidity here . . . winnings will be donated to NUAFA of course!

“Saludos de Cozumel” Greetings from Cozumel – June 13, 2010

Volunteer efforts during the Spring 2010 Mission Trip benefitted numerous organizations and families. We’ve taken a break from posting here to focus on follow-up for these mission projects and to help local organizations plan and access resources needed for the coming months. We’re resuming frequent postings to share updates.

Vida Abundante Christian Outreach Ministry deeply appreciates ALL the volunteer and donor support received recently.

I attended their weekly Sunday evening Celebration Worship service . . . just stopped by unannounced because I wanted to see Pastora Mariela and observe how the new worship platform was being used.

What a wonderful experience . . . all 2 and 1/2 hours! Yes, it is true. . .that’s about the length of a normal worship service. Nothing is a “rush” here and no one glances at their watch. The generousity of donors and tireless hours mission volunteers have invested in supporting Vida Abundante was acknowledged four times throughout the service by the pastor and a number of church members.

Pastora Mariela encouraged everyone to look around at their outdoor worship center and notice all the things provided by donors . . . the metal roof shielding us from rain during the service, the bibles from the Bible Blessings project initiated by the SAIL group, and especially the beautiful new worship platform built during the Spring 2010 Mission Trip. They asked me to extend their greetings, blessings and THANKS to brothers and sisters in the United States.

Sometimes people ask, “Why spend your time and energy helping people in Mexico when there are so many that need help in our own country?” It’s simple . . . the local people of Cozumel (and throughout Mexico) are sooooo appreciative! They don’t have a sense of entitlement.

They are especially proud of the new platform as it is the focal point for worship services three times a week, children’s programs and other special events. This project was a partnership between the church (Pastor Jose identified design elements and church volunteers applied the special paint); donors from First Christian Church in Lincoln, NE, and mission volunteers. Photos tell the story best . . .

View of worship platform before

BEFORE – Worship Platform assembled from available materials

The platform was unsafe

BEFORE – Unsafe platform made of reclaimed wood pallets

Worship Platform Construction

DURING – Sturdy construction built in sections

The Construction Continued

DURING – Designed & built by mission volunteers

The Construction Completed

AFTER – Construction is completed by volunteers. Now ready for painting

The Construction Completed

AFTER – Special industrial paint used at airports resists dirt & water



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Celebrating Blanca’s Birthday . . It All About Family! – March 15, 2010

Blanca age 12 cares for her siblings and cousins

Blanca right age 12 cares for her siblings and cousins

Yesterday was Blanca’s birthday. . . so I want to share a little about her. She’s an amazing, intelligent young woman we’ve come to know through volunteer efforts to support her extended family, including constructing a kitchen for them during the recent Mission Trip. At the ripe old age of 12, Blanca has already assumed a caretaking role for the 13 children (siblings and cousins) that live together in Jose’s family. Jose, her oldest cousin, is a child with disabilities sponsored by Carrie’s Heart.

Blancas home

Blanca's home is built from reclaimed materials

Blanca lives modestly on the Transversal road that crosses the island a couple of miles out of town. Each family group has separate sleeping quarters. They share cooking in a common kitchen with the extended family of 13 children and 8 adults. There is no running water or plumbing. They draw 5 gallon buckets of water by hand from a well. An extension cord from their neighbors provides two light bulbs at night.


Blanca learns to give fluoride treatments

Blanca learned to give fluoride treatments from Dr. Julie

Blanca doesn’t have many material possessions or any opportunities outside home and school. However, that doesn’t stop her . . . she’s very resourceful. She always offers to help volunteers and is determined to learn new things, especially English. Blanca initiates conversations with anyone who visits and she longs for simple story books in English with pictures. Spanish/English children’s books are difficult to find here and very expensive so new or used books make wonderful donations for families, daycares like NUAFA
and schools. Blanca plays “school” with all the children, gathering them around their new table. She’s taught them to count in both Spanish and English.

April prepares the pinata

April fills piñata for Blanca's birthday

Mission trip volunteers learned about Blanca’s birthday when we installed the projects built for the family’s kitchen. Kendricks and Stephens donated the huge tiger piñata and candy as a surprise for Blanca. Other goodies were added too (beads, small toys, shampoo/soap samples) donated by the SAIL group, Marshalls, Larsens and Pedersens. April and I took food donations to the family on Satuday and checked to be sure all was working fine with the kitchen projects. When we asked if they planned to celebrate Blanca’s birthday, they replied “No, there is no money to celebrate . . .but her birthday is Sunday and we will all be together.” No one was sad. There were no expectations or a sense of entitlement for a meal, a cake, gifts or celebration.

It is hard to know who was more excited when we gave them the piñata. . . Antonia, the grandmother, the mothers of the children or all the kids! Everyone was THRILLED. In this family, like many others with limited resources here, birthdays are less about the individual and all about the family spending time together. –Karen

Casa del Alfarero NUAFA A.C. (Heart of Family Support) Receives Funds–Saturday, March 13

Jay and Gary install shelves for teaching materials at CAM School

GREAT NEWS . . . Eloisa Buenfil, NUAFA’s President and Founder, just shared she received a 15,000 peso check (~$1,225 USD) from Acuerdo San Gervasio that will pay for three months rent. This is the remaining balance of a 60,000 peso grant (~$5,000 USD) awarded to NUAFA in 2009. The grant supported moving the daycare, job training for women and other programs from Eloisa’s personal home to a rented facility for the first time since NUAFA was founded 8 years ago.

The Acuerdo San Gervasio (ASG) grant program is a collaboration between local government and private sector businesses to support innovative programs that benefit the community. Although non-profit organizations like NUAFA received the first part of their grant awards in 2009, the local government ran short of funds so was not able to provide the balance of the grants these organizations were counting on receiving. NUAFA does not have any ongoing source of funding to pay rent so this has been real struggle in recent months.

Great, Great Grandmother of NUAFA child

It is uncertain if any Acuerdo San Gervasio grant funds will be available in 2010 . . . but for now, Eloisa and NUAFA families are extremely grateful and celebrating the rent will be paid through mid-June!

WHEW . . . this good news came “just in time”! Rent is due in two days and NUAFA didn’t have funds to cover the rent. Eloisa tells me I worry too much . . . maybe I do! Living one day (or moment) at a time is key to surviving here on the island. –Karen

Visiting Volunteers Hand Off to Locals – Friday, March 12, 2010

Jay and Gary install shelves for teaching materials at CAM School

Jay and Gary install shelves for teaching materials at CAM School

WHEW . . . It was a race to the finish for Mission Volunteers to deliver projects and donations to Jose’s family, the CAM school, and NUAFA on March 2, the last “official” day of the Mission Trip.

We surpassed our goal of recruiting 8-10 participants for this Mission Trip sponsored by Friends of Cozumel. Fifteen volunteers participated (6 Cozumel residents and 9 visitors from Iowa, Nebraska and Texas). All visiting volunteers added extra days before or after the February 24 – March 2 Mission Trip to assist with preparation, follow-up or to enjoy some well deserved vacation time here on the island.

I’m feeling a bit of withdrawal now that Phyllis and Gary, the last visiting volunteers returned to the US on Wednesday. It is quiet, tranquil . . . no more noise from power tools; no one is lamenting for the 100th time we didn’t have a table saw; no more paint and varnish fumes to endure; no more schedules or logistics to arrange or change for the umpteenth time; no more laughter and gentle ribbing among friends during the daily Happy Hours we all looked forward to sharing.

KUDOS to Phyllis, our Mission Trip blogger, for sharing her perspective of our experiences in her daily posts. Although we’ve taken a brief hiatus from posting . . . I assure you the mission project work is continuing with the hand off to local volunteers. Promoting volunteerism and developing local leadership skills is one of our goals for efforts sponsored by Friends of Cozumel.

Ray and Ramiro install the door frame for Jose’s family

Ray and Ramiro install the door frame for Jose’s family

Ramiro, a friend of Ray and Sandy’s who is a local woodworker, offered his expertise to custom build an external door for Jose’s family’s kitchen project. This is first time Jose’s family has had a way to lock and secure their belongings. Ramiro was a tremendous resource prior to the Mission Trip as he went with Ray and Sandy to price lumber and identify the best places to buy supplies.

Teens learn carpentry and life skills at CAM

Teens learn carpentry and life skills at CAM

Developmentally disabled young men ages 14-22 who attend the CAM school’s carpentry skills training classes are building simple wall mounted shelves for classrooms like the one Jay and Gary are shown installing in the photo above. We donated a “model” for them to use as well as the wood, hardware and paint. They are providing the labor. They are also sanding and painting a table for a child in a wheelchair designed by Mission Trip volunteers.

CAM has tools, but needs wood and project ideas

CAM has tools, but needs wood and project ideas

The CAM school is fortunate to have an excellent wood shop instructor and tools for the teens to use to learn. What they lack, however, is an ongoing supply of materials and “real” projects to make. See CAM’s wish list of needs. Donating materials like wood scraps goes a long way in getting these teens involved in projects where they and others can see the results . . . and it is a great boost to their self confidence.

Providing opportunities to learn and contribute . . . that’s what it’s all about! – – Karen

It’s All Good—Tuesday, March 2, 2010


Getting their first shelf in the house is an event for this family.

Time has flown and suddenly it’s a sprint to the finish. We know this is our last chance to complete what we started a week ago.

All you need to install a sink is a good team like Sandy and Ray. And a sledge hammer?

We’ve laughed and shared and learned so much. We watched a mother struggle to hold back tears as we installed a kitchen with table and benches that she’ll share with her family group of 13 children ranging in ages from 2-15.

Dr. Julie gave flouride treatments and tooth- brushes to happy patients.

Then with the help of Dr. Julie, the children received a dental fluoride treatment and new toothbrushes. I’ve never seen kids so excited to sit around a “real table” or to have a toothbrush of their very own.

We also saw 4-year old Vanessa take her first steps without a walker using the parallel bars we built. And 3-year old Jonathan got to celebrate his birthday with a pinata we provided to NUAFA. This day care partially supported by SAIL and Friends of Cozumel provides meals to children who may not have access to nutritious food in their home. For Jonathan, the only parent in his home is 83-year old Juana, his great, great grandmother.

A pinata is lowered for the youngest at NUAFA.

At our final gathering, we shared a wonderful meal and felt blessed that we were able to accomplish so much. The challenges and the joys were reflected in favorite quips that seemed to reoccur during the week.

— “I found those extra screws I just went to the hardware store for. They were in Hoyt’s pocket.” Every nail and screw is precious and they were purchased sparingly—sometimes with multiple trips to the hardware store each day.

— “It should only take 20 minutes.” This always turned out to be a false hope as we learned that everything here takes twice as long to accomplish.

— “No problem, I’ll carry it on my bike.” We learned to be creative in the absence of resources we take for granted at home.

— “Wow, I love this meatloaf. For the third time.” Nothing is wasted here.

— “It’s amazing such a diverse group of people were able to work so well together and no one was bleeding.” But it did look like it at times when we were working with red paint.

Jay and Larry and their helpers install screen over open windows. The family hopes to have a door one day, too.

— “I would have bet money we couldn’t have pulled this off.” It’s great to be wrong about this.

Larry adjusts a new footrest for a chair specially designed for 15-year old Jose.

Now we go off in separate directions for very different kinds of work. I hope each of us can retain this great feeling of accomplishment and satisfaction in the other parts of our lives.

As Karen says, when the day ends, it’s all good. Very good.—Phyllis

Vanesa takes her first steps without a walker on the new parallel bars at CAM.

To see children be so excited about something like a table in their home was truly amazing.

Friendships—and Glue—Form Bonds. — Monday, March 1, 2010

Our projects are nearly finished and we’re looking forward to putting them in place and meeting some of the people who will use them. We’ve built the easel and brushed on chalkboard paint. It’s ready for a young artist at the CAM school. The glue has dried on the table and benches built for Jose and his other 12 siblings. It’s ready for the family to share a meal together for the first time.

Long hours were spent by Larry, Hoyt and several others to build this table to seat 14. Four coats of primer and marine varnish were needed to protect it from the humid, tropical climate.

The construction and finish work we’ve done has created functional items to improve the daily lives of others. Along the way, they’ve improved our own lives. How? Well, we now know just how much thinner to add to quick-drying paint when working in a breezy area. And after measuring, cutting and measuring again, we’ve learned that our framing square isn’t really square. We’ve enjoyed our happy hours with “just a few snacks.” And we have the satisfaction of knowing our work will make a difference for someone less fortunate.

We learned the danger of using an old, borrowed framing square.

Perhaps the most important changes in our own lives, however, are the bonds formed by growing friendships. Sixteen people from Iowa, Nebraska, Texas and Cozumel have learned to support each other and work together.

Larry talked about friendship in our morning devotional meeting. “Sometimes we spend so much time just socializing—acquiring lots of acquaintances—that we don’t take time to cultivate deep friendships. You don’t need many acquaintances to make it in this world, but you do need a good friend. That’s who will stand with you in a crisis.”

Good point.

And that’s what FOC—Friends of Cozumel—is doing. We’re trying to be the kind of friends who help out when times are tough.

"I don't know a stranger," says LaFonda as she makes a friend at Vida Abundante.

We are so grateful to those who took time to join us on this mission trip, but we also know that we couldn’t have done our work without those who helped previously or from a distance. Maybe you’ve sent used clothing as donations, or a bit of cash to help us buy supplies. Thank you. Or maybe you’ve simply said “Good job” to one of us or thought about getting involved yourself someday. Thanks for that, too.

We’ve taken your good wishes and put them into action. Stay tuned for tomorrow’s blog when I hope to have lots of photos of our projects in use. That will show what some wood, glue, paint and friendships can do.—Phyllis

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It’s a Working Honeymoon—Sunday, Feb. 28, 2010

Today’s opening devotion focused on the fact that life is full of choices. We can choose to be positive or not. We can choose to help others or work only for ourselves. In this case, our choice of an optimistic approach to our work created a very ambitious project list. We’re tiring, time is running short and we have so much work yet to do. Thank heavens the reinforcements arrived yesterday.

Julie shows new grab bars in a freshly painted bathroom at CAM. Our group worked to create handicapped accessible bathrooms at the school for chlidren disabilities.

 And how appropriate to learn that after renewing their vows, this mission trip is a second honeymoon for Julie and Jay.

Jay demonstrates that one man's work is another man's vacation.

The construction and finish work continued in anticipation of installation of items at the CAM school for children with disabilities. As we discussed the list of work yet to be checked off our lists, another idea from today’s devotion came to mind: Don’t worry about tomorrow. Tomorrow will worry about itself. Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

So I choose not to worry about the fact that my email inbox has 323 real-job-related messages in it. Or the fact that I have buttercup yellow paint in my hair. I choose to enjoy the warmth of the day (apologies to fellow Nebraskans still suffering in the cold). I most definitely chose a second helping of bacon from the excellent breakfast served by Cook-in-Residence LaFonda. And I choose to forge ahead with our work although my dogs are barkin’ –my way of saying my feet hurt.

The moral of today’s story is that life is, indeed, full of choices—and there’s always a reason for bacon. (mentioned in honor of Taylor, a 19-year old FOC donor, who coined the phrase).—Phyllis

Hoyt, Ray, Larry and Gary install a swing at CAM developed to help children with disabilities learn balance.